{"id":37574,"date":"2022-01-28T22:08:33","date_gmt":"2022-01-28T20:08:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mssociety.org.il\/?p=37574"},"modified":"2022-01-28T22:08:33","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T20:08:33","slug":"family-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mssociety.org.il\/en\/family-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Family life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"direction: ltr;\"><strong>MS can affect many aspects of daily family life<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Last updated: 20th January 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">MS can affect many aspects of daily family life, particularly if a person has symptoms such as fatigue, eyesight problems and cognitive changes. Couples may find that they have to review their roles within the household and this can be difficult. For example, a family with two incomes may have to learn to cope on one, or one of the partners may have to take on extra responsibilities for running the home or caring for children.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\"><strong>The impact of MS symptoms on family life<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">It is estimated that as many as half of people with MS experience mild cognitive problems. Because cognitive difficulties in MS are \u201cinvisible\u201d symptoms, family members may misinterpret behaviours or reactions on the part of the person with MS. Difficulties with memory, problem solving and concentration may be interpreted as the family member not caring or not listening, being uninterested or unwilling to cooperate. Correct information can be the key to helping families understand and cope with cognitive problems.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">Fatigue is another misunderstood invisible symptom of MS. Often a family member with MS appears to lack motivation when, in fact, the person is experiencing MS fatigue, a type of tiredness or exhaustion that is a symptom of the disease.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">When the family has a clear understanding of fatigue and its impact on the person\u2019s ability to function, they may be more keen to help with household tasks, reconsider family activities that may be strenuous for the member with MS, and, in general, re-organise the house and habits of the family in away that helps the person with MS conserve energy. It is important for the family to understand the importance of energy conservation strategies that can help the person with MS have more energy to spend with the family.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\"><strong>How families cope<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">Each member of a family has his or her own coping style. On finding out that a family member has MS, some people look for as much information about the disease as they can find and perhaps prefer to talk to others about their experience with MS.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">Others may deal with news of the diagnosis by keeping busy with other activities in order to avoid thinking about MS.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">Each person brings into the \u201cMS experience\u201d his or her own way of coping. Different coping styles within the same family can be complementary or contradictory. Contradictory coping styles may lead to conflict within the family.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">Family members should be encouraged to cope with MS in their own individual styles, while respecting the coping styles of other members. However, communication is key, and if a family traditionally has dealt with problems by ignoring them, assigning blame or using some other, ineffective coping style, the family\u2019s way of confronting MS will be the same, at least without the help of a family counsellor or psychologist.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">MS can add stress to a relationship. The unpredictability and progressive nature of the disease, the changes and sacrifices that might be required and the impact of some symptoms are all obstacles that make it difficult for both the person with MS and their partner to cope. It may be useful for a couple to seek help from a counsellor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\">MS affects every member of the family. Learning about the disease and its possible effect on the family can help people face challenges as they arise. Families that are informed about the different<span style=\"color: #333399;\">\u00a0<a style=\"color: #333399;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.msif.org\/resource-topic\/relationships-family-caregivers\/\">resources<\/a><\/span>\u00a0available can choose those that best suit their needs and lifestyle.<\/p>\n<p style=\"direction: ltr;\"><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Image: Unsplash.com &#8211; Natalya Zaritskaya<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MS can affect many aspects of daily family life Last updated: 20th January 2021 MS can affect many aspects of daily family life, particularly if a person has symptoms such [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":37575,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[747],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37574","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-family"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.6 - 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